How To Get The Kind Of Love You Want From Your Man
Posted by Steve Ubah on: 2005-08-12 18:16:53
Now you are wondering what positive thinking and positive action has to do with getting the kind of love you want from your man. The answer? Everything. Men are really easy to please, if you understand their needs and exactly how to satisfy them, which is precisely the subject matter of my e-book. In Passion Keys, I lay out the keys to unlocking the passionate love that resides in the hearts of all men. Yes, all men have plenty of love to give, if you know how to tear down the walls around their hearts.
In today’s issue of my newsletter, I will give you some of the tools you can use to get the kind of love you deserve. Before I give you this information, you must bear in mind that just one issue of this newsletter is not enough to give you the detailed information of how to apply them. Having said that, I will give you four keys you can use to begin the process of unlocking the love that is hiding in your man’s heart.
1.Warm and respectful communication – I could have simply said communication, and left it at that, but I feel it is very important to qualify communication, so that you are certain of the kind of communication that will get you the positive results you want.
Warm communication is like hot chocolate on a cold winter morning. It is uplifting and makes you feel good all over. That is exactly how the way you talk to your man ought to make him feel. If you talk to him with the kind of derogatory language that a lot of people use in their relationships, then you will get the same old results most people get, which is the kind of love that is always on the verge of breaking up. Use language that is kind, considerate, uplifting and you will get the same back with love as the icing on your love cake.
2.Kind and thoughtful acts - I call these acts of love. If you expect love from your man, you must act in kind and thoughtful ways. How many times have you gone out of your way to do something for your guy without him asking? Have you taken care of an important chore that he hasn’t been able to get to, without his requesting you to do him a favor? Surprise him with gifts when nothing special is happening, his birthday, your anniversary, or special holidays. Sometimes it is not what you do for him directly. It could be something you do for a member of his family. Blood is thicker than water, and when you do something that positively impacts one of his loved ones, you have also positively impacted your guy as well. Sounds like an ancient Chinese philosophy, but it is not. It is a universal principle.
3.Never Nag – Nagging is one of those areas in a relationship where women are not sure when they have slipped into the proverbial black hole. Let me quickly give you some pointers on what it means to nag. You are nagging when you complain constantly about what your guy should have done but did not do, or what he repeatedly does that is making you sick. You are nagging when you constantly yell when you are dissatisfied or disappointed by how your guy has handled or failed to handle an issue your expected him to take care of differently. The point is not that you should not be dissatisfied or disappointed when your guy is not rowing his share of the boat. But the way you express your discontent is what makes the difference between a nag and someone that can effectively get her point across.
4.Be affectionate – Shower your guy with loves of hugs and kisses. Men, like women, enjoy the attention they get when their woman initiates affection. Do it often, but do not smother him with it.
That is all for now. To find out how to make your man fall madly in love with you, please visit: http://www.smartwomansguide.com.
About the Author
Steve Ubah is the author of Passion Keys – A Woman’s Ultimate Guide To Unlocking The Love In A Man’s Heart. To find out how you can make your man fall madly in love with you, please visit http://www.smartwomansguide.com. A note to all publishers: Feel free to reprint this article in its entirety in your ezine, newsletter or website as long as the article’s content is not modified and all links as well as the author’s resource box are included.
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